Making the decision to place a loved in a nursing home is tough. You want to be certain they will be cared for properly without being neglected or worse, abused. Elderly abuse is a growing concern not only at nursing homes but also for those hired to provide care for the elderly in their own homes. Here are some ways to avoid wrongful death or injury to a loved one under the care of a nursing home or personal care giver at home.
Complaints from a Loved One
Sometimes it is easy to disregard complaints a loved one might have about their nursing home or care givers because you feel they are over reacting or being difficult. However, it may be a sign something is wrong. If they seem to be having difficulty with their care givers and have serious concerns or accusations against them you want to start watching for further signs of abuse. It can be difficult with patients who might have dementia, but consistent complaints or signs that your loved one is becoming more agitated and unhappy should be noted and further investigation is warranted. Wrongful death attorneys know that many complaints are warranted and worthy of looking into.
Signs of Physical Abuse
As soon as a loved one complains about their care giver look for signs of physical abuse. Look for anything from cuts and bruises to welts or difficulty with moving that did not exist before. Symmetrical injuries are sure signs there may be physical abuse. Try to speak to your loved one in private and ask them how they received the injuries. Tell them not to be afraid as you want to help them.
Emotional Changes
When you actually witness a care giver losing patience, mumbling, yelling or saying cruel things to your loved one immediately report them. In fact if at all possible remove your loved one from the facility or fire the care giver if they are working at your home or the home of your loved one. If they are behaving like this in front of you they can be much worse when you are not around. Likewise if you notice a loved one seems distressed, agitated or is self comforting by rocking or mumbling this is a sign that elder abuse may be taking place.
